Category: Dating and Relationships
Hey all. So I was thinking, when someone is in a relationship with someone else, and they comment that another person is hot or attractive, do you think that that is considered cheating to look at another person and even compliment them if they don't mean anything by it?
No I wouldn't consider any of it to be cheating. As long as they ain't doing any fuckin, kissin, or dating someone else behind your back then your fine but they way I see it is when your with someone you can look but not touch. If a girl got pissed at me for compimenting a girl even if I didn't mean anything by then hell someone has insecurity issues and that kind of a relationship I can't stand.
No I don't consider that cheating. It's only human to look at other people when you're in a relationship or to think someone else is attractive and to comment on that. I'd rather hear my husband make the comment than keep it to himself. That's healthy comunication. we're not on some lonely island. We're surrounded by people all the time. As long as there's no messing around behind your partner's back it's not cheating.
No I don't consider it cheating either.
Of course it's not cheating. But then, if it's really causing insecurity or jealousy, it's probably something you need to talk out between you. Having the moral high-ground isn't much good if it's still driving a huge wedge into the relationship.
not cheating. I agree, look and comment, but don't touch
No but it would do bugger all to help their partner's self esteem and could be taken as a type of psycholoical abuse.
so for blind folks, is looking touching, and touching using something other than your hands to touch?
I agree with Resonant and HauntedReverie. It's not cheating, but if it brings up insecurity feelings for either of the partners, it should be discussed. And certainly no touching or physical flirting, that's just not proper/nice/good relationship etiquette.
I agree with you guys. What we mean by looking but not touching I think is that you can comment but don't make a move or flirt, not necessarily physicacl touching but that too.
i don't consider it to be cheating. you have to have that open communication in a relationship, y'know?
No, not cheeting at all. It can make some jelis, but its not even remotely cheeting. I mean, maybe its kind of rude to comment. But, I don't no. I don't think its that big of a deal.
I think it would make me a little sad, perhaps a bit ensecure if my man were to tell me that he found another woman attractive. That would however be true honesty and that would denote good communication, which is key. If he commented that he liked another woman's hair style, perfume shade of lip stick, etc I might use that to make my self more attractive to him. Goblin, I don't think it could be called psychological abuse unless it was intended to hurt your partner or make them change or to guilt them into doing something for you. I think to a degree it would be healthy communication to discuss such things on occation.
No i wouldn't concitter it cheeting and if he could tell me why he thought that and it could be something I could change, then I would be greatfull. I would concidder it cheeting if he went more than looking inviting out for a lunch alone etc etc...
Blind man in relationship. Blind man looks at other woman. Looks with hands. Blind man sleeps on couch. Blind man, maybe get hands cut off. Blind man should hope no other body parts cut off too.
I don't think it's cheating. Sure I might be a little jealous but by no means is it cheating.
I don't think it's cheating because when you love someone, you gotta put some trust in them. As long as they don't do anything about it then that fine. Paying a compliment to someone doesn't mean that you have to think that your girlfriend/boyfriend is going to have a relationship with them. It's just like today when my fiance told Quinten that she have a internet crush on him. It just words and at the end of the day, only I can make her scream with pleasure and only she can make me cream! haha
Thanh
lol thann and an interesting couple you two do make too. Grins. So tell me were you two having phone sex when you were in the kitchen? lol just kidding.
We have sex anywhere and anytime as long as there's room for the banging!
I agree with all said here.
Troy
Wo, loverboy, you must be quite demanding. I wish you both much luck and great happiness.
don't worry heather they will be happy as long as they can still both get pleasure from each other. lol teasing you two. sends huggles to thann and michelle. While the clothes are still on please
I agree. Me and my guy actually talk about that cause he thinks Jewel's hot and I must say I have no prob with that.
lol Candice. You know you wanna hug me naked! hehe
Well, it doesn't matter who else Mark says is hot because I know I'm the best. LOL. I'm secure enough with myself not to let it bother me. I'd more than likely agree or disagree with him, depending on who it was, actually. Hehehehe.
It can make me a little uncomfortable if my partner is enthusing over another woman, but as long as he keeps his hands to him self I really don't mind. After all, if he tells me that he finds so-and-so attractive I might look at what attracts him to her and try to encorperate some of what he finds appealing into my own look. Now, this is not trying to change my self, just a bit of my physical appearance which can be a fun make-over.
Yay for resurrecting old topics?
I feel it is not considered cheating. Everyone is entitled to give people a good compliment.
I agree i don't think its cheating as long as it dos'nt go any further and your not thinking about that person more than your partner
Here's something else to add to my previous post ...
Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu!
I like that about the menu. Cute! LOL!
hmmm. good job with the topic...
um, yeah, what the last post said. lol
everyone looks or listens. as long as you don't take it beyond a look. Is it a natural thing to look at others??
no. ther's no harm in looking at someone and saying that they're hot. you're just looking. you're not doing anything more than that. so there really isn't any harm in it. at least I don't think so anyways.
Leslie